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Staying Put

Growing Into Adulthood, Together

Just because a young person turns 18 doesn’t mean they’re ready to leave the place they call home — or the people who feel like family. Staying Put is a supported arrangement that allows a young person in foster care to continue living with their foster carer after they turn 18 — often up to age 21. It's not fostering in the legal sense anymore. It's something gentler, more gradual, and just as important: a bridge from care to independence.

🌱 What Is Staying Put?

Legally introduced in 2014, Staying Put recognises something foster carers have always known: growing up doesn’t happen overnight.

In a Staying Put arrangement, a young person who has been in foster care continues to live with their foster family as a care leaver. They're no longer a foster child, but still benefit from the consistency, safety and support of a familiar home as they begin to navigate adult life.

It’s about connection, not just accommodation — helping young adults move toward independence while knowing they’re not alone.

📚 What Young People Need from Staying Put

The transition to adulthood is full of change — new responsibilities, decisions, and questions about the future. Staying Put gives young people time and space to figure it out with guidance, not pressure.

This might mean support with:

  • Starting college or university
  • Getting a job or apprenticeship
  • Learning life skills like budgeting, cooking, or managing healthcare
  • Exploring housing options for the future
  • Managing mental health and emotional wellbeing
  • Maintaining stability after years in the care system

At a time when many young people feel cut off from support, Staying Put sends a powerful message:

“You still belong. We’re still here.”

📝 How Does Staying Put Work?

Planning for Staying Put usually begins around the age of 16, during the development of a young person’s Pathway Plan — their personal roadmap to adulthood.

Together with their social worker and fostering team, the young person explores:

  • What kind of support they’ll need as they transition
  • Whether Staying Put is right for them
  • If their foster carer is happy to continue providing care in this new way

If everyone agrees, a formal Staying Put arrangement is made. It’s tailored to fit the young person’s goals — and your capacity as a carer.

🤝 What It Means for Foster Carers

Staying Put is not a legal fostering placement, but the commitment is just as meaningful.

You’ll continue providing:

  • Emotional support and stability
  • A safe place to grow and make mistakes
  • Practical help as they gain independence

In return, you’ll receive:

  • A Staying Put allowance to help with living costs (similar to the fostering allowance)
  • Continued support from your fostering agency and local authority
  • Flexibility around social worker involvement and household arrangements

It’s a new phase — but not a new relationship. The care continues. Just in a way that better reflects your young person’s growing autonomy.

🧩 What If I Have Other Foster Children?

You can still foster while offering Staying Put. If your former foster child remains in your home, they’ll be treated like any other member of the household — including background checks for safeguarding purposes.

You can continue to provide care for younger children or new placements, with your supervising team supporting the balance of dynamics in your home.

In fact, having a Staying Put young adult around can be a positive influence on younger foster children — a living example of what secure, consistent care can achieve.

❤️ Why Staying Put Matters

Many care leavers face abrupt transitions — from being fully supported to suddenly managing everything alone. Staying Put offers continuity, not a cliff edge.

For the young person, it’s the chance to:

  • Keep trusted relationships
  • Feel secure while they explore independence
  • Avoid risks like homelessness or social isolation

For you as a carer, it’s a privilege:
To witness a young person becoming who they’re meant to be — not rushed, not alone, but supported every step of the way.

💬 FAQs: Staying Put

Does Staying Put mean I stop being a foster carer?
No — you’re still an approved foster carer and can continue caring for other children. The Staying Put arrangement is separate and does not affect your fostering approval.

Can Staying Put go beyond age 21?
In some cases, local authorities may continue support beyond 21 if a young person is still in education or has specific needs. We’ll guide you on your local authority’s policy.

What support do I get?
You’ll receive a Staying Put allowance and continued access to your agency’s support — including your Supervising Social Worker and relevant training.

Is Staying Put always the best option?
Not always. It depends on the young person’s needs, your home circumstances, and mutual agreement. It’s a collaborative decision, led by the young person’s Pathway Plan.

🌟 From Foster Home to First Home

You were there for the difficult early years. You helped rebuild trust, hope, and resilience. Staying Put allows you to stay part of the journey as your foster child steps into adulthood — with your support still holding strong in the background.

It’s not the end of the story. It’s a new chapter — and you get to help them write it.

👉 Enquire now if you’d like to explore how Staying Put could be part of your fostering journey.

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